In the lifestyle, reputation is everything. Being a respectful and fun guest not only makes the night better for everyone—it also ensures you’ll get invited back. Good guests know how to balance sexy confidence with etiquette.
Arrive Prepared
Follow the Dress Code: Showing up in theme (or at least making an effort) shows respect for the hosts.
Bring the Essentials: Condoms, lube, breath mints, and whatever else keeps you fresh and ready.
BYOB (If Required): Many private parties are BYOB—don’t come empty-handed.
Respect the Hosts
Thank them when you arrive and when you leave.
Follow house rules—no exceptions.
Clean up after yourself; don’t leave messes in playrooms or common spaces.
Be Social, Not Pushy
Mingle first. Sexy times usually come later.
Include everyone in conversation—acknowledge both partners in a couple.
Avoid hovering in playrooms without engaging respectfully.
Consent Above All
Always ask before touching.
A “no” means no—take it gracefully and move on.
Check in often with your own partner(s) as well.
Don’t Overindulge
Alcohol is fine, but nobody wants to babysit a drunk guest.
Stay aware of your energy—sloppiness kills the vibe.
Leave Gracefully
Thank your hosts again.
Don’t linger if the party is clearly winding down.
