NANTAIMORI
A Japanese word that refers to the aesthetically erotic practice of displaying sushi on a naked male body (or a person with a penis). The practice of doing this on a body with breasts and/or a vulva is called Nyotaimori.
NEWBIE
A commonly-used term for when a person is a newcomer to the Open lifestyle, Swinger, and / or Kink / BDSM scenes. Newbies are usually known as those who do not have experience interacting with others within their lifestyle and are often excited, curious, and seeking more information and like-minded people to help them get started within their community. Munches and meet-and-greet events are incredibly helpful for newbies in these communities.
NIPPLE CLAMPS
Clamp-type devices placed on the nipples to sexually stimulate and/or restrict blood flow to the nipples. Nipple clamps can be used within the context of BDSM, wherein a Dominant may use them on their submissive as a means to Discipline them, and may sometimes attach small weights to the clamps to add extra pain and/or sensation, and/or can also be used in the context of Electrosex or Electrostimulation. When done properly, using nipple clamps can be arousing and stimulating for the wearer.
NIPPLE RINGS
Rings pierced through the nipple to stimulate sensation.
NSA
No Strings Attached. Usually used to describe casual sexual interactions or hookups.
NYOTAIMORI
A Japanese word that refers to the aesthetically erotic practice of displaying sushi on a woman’s naked body (or a person with breasts and/or a vulva). The practice of doing this on a masculine body is called Nantaimori.
OPEN DOOR SWINGING
Within the Swinging community, “Open Door Swinging” refers to when all participants (which may include two or more couples) are sexually active in the same room at the same time.
ORAL SEX
Sexual acts performed with the mouth on a person’s genitals.
ORGY
Consensual sexual group activity involving multiple people in the same room interacting with each other simultaneously. The exact definition of how many people are involved in an Orgy is sometimes debated; for some, an Orgy involves four or more people, whereas for others, an Orgy simply means it’s a group of more than three people. Importantly, in an orgy or group sex scenario, it is not necessary for every person to be sexually touching every other person. For instance, an orgy can include three heterosexual couples and involve only the female of each of those couples playing with each other sexually, while the men do not touch or stimulate each other sexually.
OTK
A term used within the BDSM / Kink community that means Over The Knee and refers to spanking and/or other types of Impact Play wherein a submissive person is bending over / lying over the lap / knee of a Dominant person and being spanked / flogged / impacted by a kink implement in that position. Can be used as a means of Discipline and/or a reward for the submissive.
