QUEEF / QUEEFING
An audible, involuntary release of air from the vagina that sounds like a fart. This is a natural phenomenon that can happen after / during penetrative sexual play because of the way air is forced into / enters the vagina, and then has to be released. It is nothing to be embarrassed about.
RACK
Acronym used to define Risk-Aware Consensual Kink, meaning that participants in each BDSM scene agree to and acknowledge the associated psychological and/or physical risks of the elements of that specific scenario.
RAVAGEMENT FANTASY
a.k.a., Consensual Non-Consent, Rape Fantasy; Ravagement Fantasy is a type of Risk Aware Consensual Kink (see RACK) BDSM scene involving roleplaying as a person who is consensually “forced” into sex by an aggressor or a group of aggressors. Importantly, having a Ravagement Fantasy does NOT mean that the person actually wants to be raped in real life. What is enticing to a person about a ravagement fantasy is the ability to control the scene and Consent to each element of the scene. There is sometimes an element of capture where the victim is taken away. Once captured, they can be bound, forcefully penetrated, and/or any other desired acts such as physically harmed, blindfolded, etc. The aggressor(s) develop the scene based on previously agreed-upon themes by and with the person playing the “victim.” All scene elements are consensual, and these fantasies are most often requested by the person playing the “victim.”
RESTRAINT
Mild Bondage used in the enactment of BDSM sexual fantasies.
RIGGER
A person (also termed a Rope Top, Top or Dominant) who practices a Bondage, typically with rope, on a consenting Rope Bunny or Rope Bottom.
RIMMING
Form of Anal play.
RISK AWARE SEX
Common among HSV- and other STI/STD-positive people, Risk Aware Sex involves consensual participation in sexual activity upon disclosure of STI/STD status.
ROAD HEAD
The act of performing fellatio on another person who is driving a motor vehicle.
ROLEPLAY
Act out a different persona dressed in sexy themed outfits.
ROPE BUNNY
A person (also called a rope bottom, submissive, or bottom) who enjoys being bound by rope, often (but not always) for the purposes of sexual stimulation. The person binding a rope bunny is called a Rope Rigger, Rigger, Rope Top and/or Dominant.
ROPE BUNNY / BOTTOM
The receiving partner to the Rigger in a BDSM dynamic, a Rope Bunny or Rope Bottom experiences psychological and/or sexual pleasure from being bound with rope or other forms of tied Bondage.
